I loved this paragraph from an article written by Francis Chan.
"A while back, an ex-gang member got baptized at Cornerstone. He fell in love with Jesus and turned from his old lifestyle. After several months at the church, he stopped attending. When we asked hm why he stopped attending, he answered: "I had the wrong idea of what church was going to be like. When I joined the church, I thought it was going to be like joining a gang. You see in the gangs we weren't just nice to each other once a week - we were family."
How important is it that we have a place where we are loved, and where we are real with each other? Not just love, but truth with love. It seems to me this makes a great case for the argument that we need small group accountability and large group challenge. From the weekend to the one-on-one we need to love each other enough to challenge each other to live out the calling of Jesus.